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  • Commitment Issues

Dating the Guy with Commitment Issues

  My girlfriend made me write this blog. She made me say that I have commitment issues. There, I said it.   Okay, she’s right. I do. I’m one of those guys who believes in true love, but I’m sceptical when I find it.   A lot of guys out there have the same problem. And you poor ladies have to date us!   Understanding a guy with commitment issues is a good way to solve many of the problems that come along.   Writing from the perspective of someone who has commitment issues, I want to help you understand what you can expect from—and how you can deal with—your cold-footed boyfriend.   How Does Fear of Commitment Manifest? How do you know if your guy has commitment issues? There are some early signs that you might notice. There are also signs that will show up more vividly later on. [...]

By | 2017-11-21T07:03:16+00:00 November 9th, 2017|Categories: Blog|1 Comment
  • A crazy dating story

A Crazy Dating Story by Sasha

  My friend Sasha not only has an awesome personality, she's also had some pretty far out experiences with dating over the years. Before Sasha met her husband, she delved into the world of online dating. You won't believe this wacky story.   They say you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince but they didn’t say that the frogs try their best to disguise themselves as princes! In July 2012 I was 21, hot off a fresh new break up and ready to mingle. I guess that was my first mistake. If any of you reading this have been on Facebook long enough, you know that there used to be a dating site called Zoosk that was linked right to your profile. This is where I met Steve. So Steve was your typical bad boy. Leather jacket, motor bike, shaved head, DJ at an [...]

By | 2017-11-21T07:05:34+00:00 October 12th, 2017|Categories: Uncategorized|1 Comment
  • Safety tips for online dating

9 Safety Tips for First Time Online Daters

  Before Christel found her soulmate, she was on the online dating scene quite a bit. During this time she learnt to be cautious about who she gave her personal details to—and who she was willing to meet in person. Here are some safety tips for online dating that she’d like to share with you in this guest post, by Christel Coetzer. --- So you’re looking for the one. Many people are flocking to online dating sites to connect with their soul mates. To be fair, some are simply looking for company. The fact remains, online dating sites are becoming popular modern meeting places. From 2013 to 2015 the amount of young adults who use these platforms tripled. But don’t think the sites’ popularity only attracts young people. People of all ages love this unique way of making new friends. For some it doesn’t develop beyond friendships. Others meet up, [...]

By | 2017-11-21T07:06:14+00:00 September 28th, 2017|Categories: Blog|0 Comments
  • Are you ready to date again?

8 Signs You’re Not Ready to Date Again

    Breakups are hard. No wait… A breakup is probably the hardest thing you will ever go through! I went through one recently and it was horrible. I never thought I’d be ready to date again. But then one day I got clarity. She was bad for me. I was bad for her. Now it’s time to move on and find the right girl. Before I started this journey I sat myself down for a very serious (and uncomfortable) conversation. I asked myself some important questions about why I wanted to start dating again. You may be at the same crossroads right now if you’re reading this. I want to give you some sound advice on being ready to date again. If any of the following points ring true for you, you may not be ready to begin your dating journey. So let’s be honest with ourselves and delve [...]

By | 2017-11-21T12:51:29+00:00 September 14th, 2017|Categories: Blog|0 Comments
  • High school sweethearts

High School Sweethearts – The Good and the Bad

  Imagine finding your soulmate early on in life and simply never letting them go! Claudia Cardoso is a 23-year-old writer from South Africa. She’s been dating her high school sweetheart since she was 17. Here are some of her thoughts on this rare kind of relationship.     Telling people that you’re still dating your high school sweetheart is a somewhat magical feeling. After the “Wow! Really?” there is the one question most ask “How do you make it work?” There is no formula. Sometimes it boils down to luck and being at the right place at the right time. Dating your high school sweetheart is a heart-warming feeling. Like other relationships, there are pros and cons. You’ve just got to hope the good outweighs the bad. If so, then it’s pure bliss.   The Advantages These advantages make you realize that you were lucky enough to have found [...]

By | 2017-11-21T12:52:38+00:00 September 5th, 2017|Categories: Blog|0 Comments
  • What to expect when dating the down to earth girl

11 Things to Expect When You’re Dating the Down To Earth Girl

The free spirits of the world are charming, whimsical and fun. They’re also strong, confident and extremely grounded. Do these words describe a girl you’ve met? Then you’re in for quite the adventure. Grounded in who they are and what they want, the down to earth girl is a force to be reckoned with. Do you have what it takes to date her? Let’s find out.   1. She Can Live Without You If you’re lucky enough to date a down to earth girl there are a few things you can expect. These ladies are super confident and don’t need men to validate them.   She Doesn’t Need Rescuing The down to earth girl is also independent. She isn’t looking for a guy to rescue her. She simply wants a best friend to share her life with. This includes financial independence. She may or may not earn a lot, but [...]

By | 2017-11-21T12:53:17+00:00 September 5th, 2017|Categories: Blog|0 Comments
  • Mistakes you're making on your first date

12 Mistakes You’re Making on Your First Date

  Got a blind date coming up? Or have you taken your online dating chat to the next level and decided to meet? I love first dates. I know I should be nervous, but the excitement always trumps my anxiety. I’m so eager to meet Miss Right that I tend to get over excited. And then it happens… I do something silly. You know what I mean. That silly thing you did or said that you can’t stop replaying over and over in your head when the date is over. Stop. Before you go on that date, read some of these important points. Some of these mistakes are easy to make, so make sure your date goes well by avoiding these common first date mistakes.   1. Meeting at Home For safety reasons it’s always best not to meet at someone’s home. Public places are always a better option because you’re [...]

By | 2017-11-21T12:54:03+00:00 August 2nd, 2017|Categories: Blog|0 Comments
  • challenges you will face with online dating

10 Challenges You Will Face with Online Dating

  I have a broken heart right now. After an 16 month on-and-off relationship the fighting finally got to me—and I ended it. I miss her. But I know we weren’t right for each other. We met through online dating. It was love at first chat. Today I signed up to the same site we met on. I guess I’m hoping to get that same connection with someone else. It’s been tough. Online dating has its ups and downs. I wish I had known what to expect before I started about 18 months ago. Each day brings a new lesson. It’s a journey I’d love to share with you. If you’re looking to start dating online, here are some general dating advice on what you can expect. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.   1.You Will be Judged on Your Looks Attraction is important. But online dating—through no fault of [...]

By | 2017-11-21T12:50:09+00:00 August 2nd, 2017|Categories: Blog|0 Comments